My name is Christopher Jones and my birth date is November 18th, 1985, I was wondering if you might know when I might start dating, finding my soul mate. I have this one girl who I've been interested in, her name is Erika Hoffmann and she was born on November 12th, 1990, we stay in the same apartment complex and go to the same university, cal state Fullerton. I would love to ask her out but am afraid of weirding her out and have her think that I'm being too forward. My friends are sometimes surprised when I tell them how I've never had a girlfriend before and I'm already 23 years old. I have an easy time making friends, especially with girls, but it's being able to ask a girl out and have her be interested in me enough to want to go out with me and possibly start a relationship with me, that is where I struggle and end up either messing it all up, pushing her away and just making the situation very awkward for both of us. I just never know if the girl is really attracted to me as much as I am attracted to her so it always feel very one-sided and I never know what to expect or even if the girl is already involved so I end feeling kind of weird for asking when I should already know that it wouldn't work. But, I don't want to just keep sitting around when I know that that special someone, my soul mate is out there and I'm just sitting around waiting for her to come to me when I want to go out there and find her or I might end up missing my chance. I really like Erika allot and I've spent time chatting with her on face book and it seemed to me that she enjoyed talking to me like I enjoyed talking with her. But, I just don't know how she feels about me and if she is interested in me at all. I've sent her messages on face book and asked if she would want to hang out but she hasn't responded so I don't know if she has been too busy or is ignoring. So, any insight you might have on this would be very much appreciated, thank you.